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What gift-giving etiquette should I know?

When giving a gift to a Chinese friend or family member, keep these etiquette rules in mind:
  • Avoid these gifts: Clocks (sound like "ending"), umbrellas (sound like "separating"), pears (sound like "separate"), four of anything (sounds like "death").
  • Wrap it nicely: Red wrapping paper is good for celebrations - it symbolizes good luck. Avoid white or black wrapping (used for funerals).
  • Give/receive with two hands: This shows respect, especially when giving to an older person.
  • Don't open the gift immediately: In many traditions, you don't open the gift in front of the giver to avoid appearing greedy.
These are traditional rules, and many younger Chinese people might be more relaxed about them. But following them shows you respect the culture.